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My daily obsessions!

This is why men hate shopping with women

My daily obsessions!

May 2, 2010 |  by  |  Share

Shopping, massage, make up ... I guess these are the words that can brighten up any woman`s day (and if not, it does brighten up my day!). I`ve always been fond of shopping, I would spend hours at shopping just searching and trying out new clothes and shoes, some say that i`m even a shopaholic... well, guess it`s better to be a shopaholic rather than a workaholic. Better to ruin your credit card than your health, huh? I`ll just show you my daily obsessions.

When you`re doing something that you enjoy, having a massage for instance, you release the stress and tension you`ve been gathering throughout the day. As a following, I will just keep on feeding my daily obsessions, starting with my morning coffee which is a total must and continuing with emptying my credit cards. If there`s anything worse that the current financial crisis, it`s running out of money while shopping and not being able to buy yourself those black, high-heeled shoes that you saw last day or that perfect make up kit you just worship! This would be the hardest torture to bear!

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Ambition, leadership and other qualities

Ambition is universal!

Ambition, leadership and other qualities

May 2, 2010 |  by  |  Share

As human beings, we have both qualities and flaws. It`s normal, and I think that ambition is the most important quality that one can have. Ambition is the one that makes you fly when you want to do so, no matter if you don`t have wings or you haven`t flown before.

What is ambition, actually? According to the dictionary, ambition would be a strong desire for succeeding in something. According to me, it`s one big step forward towards perfection, the perfection that we`re all craving for. I mean... Look at Bill Gates, he never dared to even dream that he`s gonna end up like this, rich and famous. It was ambition that helped him all along.

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My dream trip

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My dream trip

April 30, 2010 |  by  |  Share

I guess that we all got our patterns on different topics: boyfriends, the dream job or the perfect body. Well, although I got many patterns the one that I am really focused on is related to my dream trip. I mean, If I had the time I would book in a hotel in Ibiza right now, anxiously waiting to do all those crazy things there with the one I love. So far, I didn`t have the chance to book flights to and from Ibiza, although I love travelling.

My dream trip is just like many of you think it would be: fancy cocktails, thousands of dollars spent in malls in Dubai, checking in at Burj-Al-Arab for a whole month and have no stress about anything. Well, although I would love to do that, my perfect trip would be the one  when I`m surrounded by people I love, best friends and people that I`m feeling confortable with. In the end, it`s about who is enjoying the summer with you, not only about a specific location or trip costs. True, trip costs are an  aspect that should be taken into consideration when you decide to book a flight, check in or when it comes to travelling to exotic places.

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LGBT bars and dating sites

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LGBT bars and dating sites

April 29, 2010 |  by  |  Share

We all need to have somebody next to us, to love and support us regardless of our choices, and I think everybody has used a LGBT bar or a dating site at least once in his or her life, just to see what`s so great about them. Internet provides us with the chance of finding somebody compatible with us, we just need to take advantage of it. And it works, trust me.

LGBT bars are not different from other straight bars, the only difference would be the multicoloured walls or something linked to the rainbow, which as you well know is the emblem of LGBT. Moreover, it is not exclusively dedicated to the LGBT community, everybody has acces to one of this LGBT bars as far as they show respect and understanding towards people with a different sexual orientation.

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 8 questions NOT to ask a transsexual

There are some bad questions, too.

8 questions NOT to ask a transsexual

April 29, 2010 |  by  |  Share

It is known that being a transsexual supposes lots of courage, self-esteem, ambition and determination. Some people may find this phenomenon weird or even funny, and that`s why they ask transsexuals stupid questions that not only offends them, but also make the curious one seem a total incult.

Most of us can cope with those particular questions although they are really unpleasant and it occurs many times that you get tired of some people`s mockery. I will show you 10  of the most common questions that transsexuals are asked in order to satisfy curiosities.

1. What is your original name, you know, before you were transsexual?

Well, it is the one that I choose to have right now in the moment of speaking that really matters. There is no such thing as "original" or "fake" name. I don`t actually take my ID with me everytime I go out, so I guess I can assign myself any name I want to.

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6 tips to overcome discrimination issues

Though it may not seem so, we are all the same.

6 tips to overcome discrimination issues

April 29, 2010 |  by  |  Share

Even though we are living in the 21st century and things are much more different than they used to be once,  some of them stayed the same and people continue to see others as freaks, hating them without a particular reason. In this article you will find a few of the situations when people are discriminated for being gay or having a different God.

Whether if we`re talking about people that are harassed at the workplace, school, playground or even in family, discrimination makes all of us really unconfortable. It usually  appears when people have a different religion, sexuality, skin colour, education, or just don`t share the same opinions with the majority. For instance, political views. People are not born with the hatred they show in any of the cases mentioned early, they are taught to do so at home. A child with  homophobic parents will end up hating homosexuals too, same thing will happen with a boy raised in a racist family.

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What is LGBT? What does it include?

LGBT - part of the modern world

What is LGBT? What does it include?

April 29, 2010 |  by  |  Share

LGBT is a general term that reffers to all the people that have a different sexual orientation than the heterosexual one. LGBT includes intersex/hermaphrodites, homosexuals, lesbians, pansexuals/omnisexuals, bisexuals and transsexuals. For the past few years, people had different opinions about LGBT, especially regarding the acceptance, marriage, employment, religion issues and adoptions made by gay/lesbian couples. As you may guess, people don`t see LGBT in a positive way ... .

There still are many people that are unaware of what certain terms mean, or use them in an unappropriate way. I am going to make a brief summary about each and every term, in order to ease your understanding, and hopefully manage to make people a bit more open minded. If any questions, please ask!

1. Homosexual/Gay - Term used for describing a man that has sexual intercourse or romantic connections with another man. There are more gays than lesbians, studies have shown that approximately 5% of men have a gay/bisexual orientation.

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Tips that any (believe me, any) first time bottom should know

Learn how to be a bottom!

Tips that any (believe me, any) first time bottom should know

April 28, 2010 |  by  |  Share

Throughout history men had sex one with each another and relished the experience. Etruscan tombs in Italy, for instance, have paintings of men getting involved sexually with other men. Sex between men has persisted despite the persecution by clergymen, judges, and doctors.

To have sex as a bottom and enjoy it, you may have to overcome some negative attitudes about your anus. The best preparation for being a bottom is to explore your anus and some of the sensations it can provide. Some men like to do the following exercises in the bathtub. The warm water helps you to relax, and the bathroom provides some privacy for gay men who still live with their family.

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How to get a job during financial crisis

What is your dream job?

How to get a job during financial crisis

April 28, 2010 |  by  |  Share

FIVE TIPS ON HOW TO GET EMPLOYED

The financial crisis has been affecting every single nation since the beginning of 2009, and apparently it continues on doing so for the next few years. Here you will find 5 tips that (hopefully) will help you to get a job, even if it`s not your dream job or the greatest one. We should remember that during the financial crisis, the employment rate dropped by 50%, which makes things a bit hard to manage.

1. Adapt your CV

Most likely, you have already completed your CV (oftenly reffered to as "résumé"), so what`s left to do is to adapt it according to the financial crisis. Therefore, you should look forward to having more than one job, for instance you could apply for two part-time job and have two sources of money per month. Also, try to check again all the information to see if you`ve added all of your  diplomas, you never know when that can matter in applying for a job!

2. Ask friends to help you!

Since it`s a matter of life and death, I`m sure you could give a call to some of your best friends and ask them to help you with any ideas they could possibly have. Moreover, if they know somebody that could hire you would be a step forward. Try to keep in touch with many of your friends, you never know where your luck will pop out from.

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10 ideas for a long life!

Long, healthy life ahead!

10 ideas for a long life!

April 28, 2010 |  by  |  Share

Nowadays, we all put accent on a long, wealthy, problem-free life although this thing  is  hard to obtain. There are basically a few factors that influence our life quality in a negative way, but there is a way to minimize their side effects. However, I am going to present you 10  tips in order to be healthy both physically and mentally and have a long and fulfilling life:

1. Get a pet!

Our everyday problems and worries can sometimes be overwhelming and so they significantly reduce our life quality due to depressions, anxiety or stress. This is why a pet, even if we`re talking about a dog, cat or a canary, plays an important role in reducing stress. It is really good to know that even if you`re single, there is still somebody waiting for you to come home. I personally can say that my dog helped me whenever I felt lower than the floor, bored or not in mood for anything. Pets can work their magic on you,  too!

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