Since heterosexual people enjoy anal intercourse, why do they mock on gays, bisexuals and transgenders for doing the same?
I`ve always asked myself why do heterosexuals (heterosexual men mostly) like to mock on gay, bisexual and transgender people for enjoying anal intercourse. I mean, come on, if you`re randomly picking up ten guys and ask them "did you ever had anal with your girlfriend?", undoubtedly at least five of them will answer YES, I DID. They were either curious, or they find it hotter than the regular sexual intercourse. Either way, this doesn`t give them the right to be such hypocrits.
However, if you ask heteros why do they mock on us for enjoying this type of intimate contact, they usually answer "it isn`t gross to do it with a woman, but it`s disguisting to do it with a man". No sh*t, why isn`t it gross to do that with a woman? Do women use their booties for other "biological purposes" than men? I don`t think so 
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Anyway, back in highschool (since I was out from a very young age), I happened to have this open talk with one of my homophobic classmates, asking him why is it that he hates gay, bisexual and transgender people so much. He told me that it`s all because "the disguisting things they do", obviously reffering to the intimate part. Apparently, he didn`t know that there`s this thing called "cleaning yourself" before doing anything, and this is what actually made him be so against it.
Coming back to the main topic now. I have some open-minded, straight acquaintances who admitted that they enjoy having this type of intimate intercourse and have nothing against gay, bisexual and transsexual people who do the same. Why can`t everybody be like this, folks? Why do they have to be such hypocrits and throw stones at others, when they`re actually doing the same "disguisting things"?
To sum up, you know what they say, those macho "heterosexual" and homophobic people who yell the loudest when it comes to anti-gay protests, are usually the biggest closeted homosexuals. It must be so hard to be frustrated in such a way that you basically repress your orientation and become homophobic... . However, the things that heterosexuals see as disguisting when talking about gay, bisexual and transgender people are usually the ones that turn them on the most.
P.S.: You`d be amazed to find out how many straight men LOVE to have a finger up their ass when they`re turned on! LOL.
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People lack information. Not only about gay (and BLT community in general) people but also about many things. Maybe it would be boring to know everything.
Of course, at some there is a certain level of thirstiness for knowledge but facing so much unhappiness (I don't buy those semi-fake so called Happy Coca-Cola style smiles), stress, social issues... why would anyone care (for real) what gay people are doing in their bedrooms.
Now, I think that your topic's question would find only a relative answer AFTER digging far far away after it. Let me tell you why: it would be easy to throw a silly answer like: OMG, they are hypocrite. But that's only half of the answer.
It's more comfortable to follow what "they" say. Or suggest. Look at children: why they ain't afraid of a possible murderer? because they learn FEAR over time, because they will have been told so.
Exactly the same is happening with this gay/str8 - black/white - Jewish/German discrimination models. People are taught by the society to behave in a specific way. Plus, that's why they say that it's hard to teach an old dog new tricks.
I pose this question to persons all the time and NO one could give me an answer...
i too agree completely with robert.....
most young hetero sexual people are hypocrite but most of them basically are in fear of society, that if they accept us n our intimacy then their sexuality would be doubted....
when i came out to my frnds as a bisexual gal they were supportive but wen talk comes off to the gays or bisexual men they are all like SHIT, GROSS or make fun of them.....
as on whole i think that society is stil loose on us gals (bcz i guess they think tht gals only do it vaginally) but wen it comes to gays or bi men they act so weird and EUW and all....
i dont understand the reason frankly...
I think hetero men usually mock gay or bi guys mostly because it's considered a "receptive" position (being a bottom). Receptive is code for weak or less than masculine. It's all about sexism. In addition males have a prostate organ which is very sensitive to stimulation, so hetero guys would like their girlfriend to play with them but not other males. It's ok to be vulnerable to females in that case but not to other males. It's just an ignorant view.
Thanks for actually saying this... predominantly straight guys want me to screw them in the as* all the time. I've had on a strap-on before and that was fun... but just for show. So it just goes back and forth. We like what we like.